Too young, too horny

I'm 28 years old and there are kids half my age having kids. There are girls who are on their third child and I don't have any. I don't understand women really. Yes I am one two,but sometimes I feel like I'm not normal. I met a few girls who lived through similar situations as I did and they have kids with two baby daddy's. My mom never gave me the talk and I didn't attend the class about safety sex. All I knew was that in the eyes of our lord it was frowned upon if it was not with your life partner. That is what kept me from doing naughty things all through high school. Actually what scared me the most id seeing a pregnant girl at school with her large belly, trying to graduate. I told myself, I won't be that lady. I asked why did you decide to have a baby. A lot of them thought it was the best thing to do because they didn't believe in abortion and some said they couldn't pay the cost of an abortion. When I really think about it. It was the fact that I knew when someone was looking at me inappropriate. It made me feel violated in a way I found thoughts of that repulsing. The time that I decided to go through with going all the way was with a boyfriend who kept insisting. It took a long time, but I finally said yes because my adviser at the time told that you might as well get it done because everyone else will keep trying to take it. So what advice can I say to all these young girls and their parents. I believe the talk is important, but I also think that parents should share their experience with their daughters and sons. Because when you parents tell you I wish I could have waited a little longer to give you a better future, it really changes the equation. My next thought on this, is don't allow them to date at an early stage. It should be until college graduation. Okay, realistically college. Even if your daughter or son don't have sex before college, by that time they will be a little more mature. In addition to encouraging education, tell them that they are smart and they will do something great. I remember my teachers always telling me, you are smart and you will do great things. It really made me special and no one was going to take it away. But don't wait until your child is a teenager, you should start the prep talk at a young age. I keep telling my six year old nephew that no girlfriends until college. That he is very handsome and smart. One day he will be an important man and he will have a better life than all of us put together, but he has to go to college first. No girlfriends or auntie is going to have to marry him early. It scares him a little, but he already knows he wants to go to college. I'm just being sarcastic about the marriage part, just so he thinks its very serious.