Sunday, May 6, 2012

Cutting your losses

A lot dream that they'll someday find their life partner and some do find it earlier than they hoped. However; for the rest of us who have paused here and there meeting different personalities it starts to become a story of fiction. Like the story of the duckling searching for the mother, we knock on peoples hearts hopeing that they will open theirs and we find "the one." At times we're so blinded by our own emotions that we do not see they are far from where we would like then to be. That is were we need to cut our losses and move on before we destroy the very nature of what attracted us to them. The pain will follow, but know that you were happy without this person before and you are more than capable to be happy again. Their memory was a temporary high, the real thing is out there.

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Truth

Don't try to force yourself in someone's life because your worth trying to make time in putting you in their life. If they cherish you as much as you cherish them, then there is no need for you to do all the work. Meet them half way. Friends will come and go, but theirs no need to break your head over their departure. It simple wasn't working out. Ask me how many friends have I had. The answer is many. Ask me how many friends do I truely have, the answer is a handfull and maybe a little more. These are the people who know me best. They cry when I cry, the laugh when I laugh, they hold the person when I fight, well I'm joking about the last one, but you get the picture.