Cutting your losses

A lot dream that they'll someday find their life partner and some do find it earlier than they hoped. However; for the rest of us who have paused here and there meeting different personalities it starts to become a story of fiction. Like the story of the duckling searching for the mother, we knock on peoples hearts hopeing that they will open theirs and we find "the one." At times we're so blinded by our own emotions that we do not see they are far from where we would like then to be. That is were we need to cut our losses and move on before we destroy the very nature of what attracted us to them. The pain will follow, but know that you were happy without this person before and you are more than capable to be happy again. Their memory was a temporary high, the real thing is out there.

Truth

Don't try to force yourself in someone's life because your worth trying to make time in putting you in their life. If they cherish you as much as you cherish them, then there is no need for you to do all the work. Meet them half way. Friends will come and go, but theirs no need to break your head over their departure. It simple wasn't working out. Ask me how many friends have I had. The answer is many. Ask me how many friends do I truely have, the answer is a handfull and maybe a little more. These are the people who know me best. They cry when I cry, the laugh when I laugh, they hold the person when I fight, well I'm joking about the last one, but you get the picture.

Putting away your pride

It's not easy to put away your pride, but It's something that needs to be done when everyone else can benefit from it. It will repay you back in the future or at least we hope it does.

Moving on I guess

Well, all I can say is really think over what you are really worth and did that person make you feel like that? Because most of the Times they didn't, there's a reason why it didn't work out. Areas you needed attention weren't being filled. So cry if you must but remember how much you truelly are worth to yourself. When you see your real value, only then can you move forward with clarity.

How to...

       How to- is the questions everyone asks. We spend more time thinking of the problem and what could be than finding out the solutions. We desperately look for an easy way of how to- to get things done. I can’t remember when was the last time I didn’t ask myself, how am going to achieve this faster. Days, months may seem long, but they go by faster than you think. Just a few weeks ago, I was too lazy to run; now I do it more often than before, which was not at all. We need to be motivated to do things and then reminded. Here is a little secret, we don’t need anyone to motivate us, we are responsible for our own bodies. We don’t need anyone to tell us what we need to do, we know what we need to do, and we just have to get it done before they say anything. The power is in us, not in them.

Starting a race, everyone is a winner moving forward

Losing weight is difficult for people who do not want to make an effort in working out or watch what they eat. I know I always build excuses to not work out. I don’t like to watch what I eat and I rationalize by saying I am healthy, not fat. Weight loss is something I always aspire to do. Today I am writing this because when I look back from now on, I will see my progress. I will still write about various things, however, making this my first entry will set the tone of how I start off. I’m not making it a race, just a trip and eventually between my letters, article, and stories, I will refer to my goal. By then I hope to have more readers interested.